what didnot means to say is; there are 2 other 3-4 page posts discussing this.
I give my items away in pub games to help the other team; ESPECIALLY if my team is trash talking. If my team is being assholes, I try to make sure they lose. If I know that this game is 100% beat, then I am not the kind of guy who wants to play solo for another hour; occasionally 2 shotting someone in the arena. I divide my gear out to `rebalance` the game; then say my farewells. Usually, because I am the host though; i go OBS mode instead, which takes me out of the game; but allows me to continue hosting. I then go make some lunch, walk the dog, get the mail... yeh know... normal things.